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H on est ly ,

The night is always darkest just before the dawn.

A little bit of a retraction.
26.3.09

"There is little more brave than an honest, personal blogger with no apologies." -Dori

Y'all thought I was playing when I said I was going to keep putting it up there. I don't play about my blog now, I thought you knew.

Anyway. I know a couple months back I said I didn't like teen pregnancy, or that might've seemed like it was what I was saying, but it actually wasn't. I don't like immature teen mothers. Scratch that, I don't like immature mothers at all. It makes me really mad to see people that get pregnant and continue to go about their life like it's still about them. That's what bothers me about teen pregnancy, and that's what the pregnancy blog was about.

With that said, the only thing that makes me more upset than immature teen mothers, is people that hate on mature teen mothers. The one's who do it right, and make the right decisions for their children. That shit's commendable. They need a hand clap, and some fucking support. And if you are going to give them praise for doing what's right, dont' qualify it. Say "good job." Don't say, "Good job (butyoustillshouldn'thavehadababy)." That's disgusting. And they don't need that from you, they've got a hard enough time as it is.

Plus why is it we feel the need to be in other people's business anyway? I mean, when I was talking about pregnancy last time, all the people I spoke on were people who came to me, and asked me for advice, they involved me personally. But unless you're deeply concerned for the child's safety, what business is it of yours how they raise their child? That's them. How bout you go do you? How bout that?

Blah, but really though. If there's any teen mothers reading this right now, congratulations for making it this far, however far you are. I'm sure God's blessed you with everything you need to be the best mother you know how.

Moving on, I'm making a list of things that irritate the shit out of me. I have reasons though.
1) Twitter (see the previous post)
2) People's obsession with Keri Hilson - note that I did not say Keri Hilson. I love me some Keri Hilson. And I like the video (even though it's OD strange to see ugmo ass Kanye West playing sexy ass Keri Hilson's love interest. Throw peanut head ass Ne-Yo in there and you find yourself asking what the fuck the world is coming to), but why on Earth does everybody have to hop on the same song at the same time? Really? Is it necessary? Calm down on Keri Hilson.

If you remember, I had this same problem with Drake a couple weeks ago. Y'all just hop from one to another, shit's confusing as fuck.

In other news, I'm legally changing my name two weeks from now, but I don't give a shit what y'all call me, cus it's the internet.

So yeah, thats all.

Till next time, I offer you positive energy, high hopes for the future, and love.


Ashley

just another little black girl with dreams. I play my music too loud, and I don't listen. I'm only at peace when I'm in pain: when my wrist is sore from writing my emotions out like blood on the band-aid of a page, or when my throat is raw from singing my thoughts like tears into the air. I'm conflicted, and unrepentant, and I like the way this blogging shit makes me feel. This is the one and only place I'll never lie, honestly.

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